Pampering is cute love shown and which is an every heart desire with-in to be treated in a special way.We know every lady loves to be taken care of; they love to be treated like a queen. … I had to check the Webster dictionary to know how they define pamper, they defined it as “to treat with extreme and excessive care and attention”; and this is how every man ought to treat his lady, with extreme care and attention.
Well i heard, from few that they actually don’t believe in pampering at all. To keep relationship intact they consider its faking and holding the relationship . So let me tell you my views on it, in few its more about respect and understanding only which is more important to sustain the relationship.
According to me should pamper girls as daughter;
Respect her like your mother;
And love her as if she is your.
If she is important to you and you show special love to her she will definitely double it back. Most of them just involve a small action only, and no money… which means almost any of these below things to do for your girlfriend are incredibly easy!
Like feeding with spoon, when she is not well Drop her to office . Amazing her with bed tea by youself waking up early in the morning. Dealing with her mood swings which generally happens and make her laugh loud in low days.
Yes, someday you can surprise them with her wishlist. Could be as simple as brownies from a specific restaurant, ice cream, flowers etc.
Many people says that pampering can’t hold relationship long as its not possible for a partner to keep pampering life long..and some says that girl is not mature if she ask for pampering .
So i would tell you that, it’s just other word of love and there is nothing wrong to pamper your spouse to arouse happiness and self esteem .I loved to be pampered . I believe, spouse should pamper each other to feel important and special. It brings thrill and surprise elements:)
Any man who hasn’t been doing this just shows he doesn’t deserve that lady.
As Women are emotional and she would be deeply moved when she has that who value her and treat her right.So if you don’t someone else will, and you will ending up loosing a good woman.Women love being the center of a man’s world; they love it when it’s just them alone and no one else.
Pampering a lady would give her that ‘only girl in the world’ feeling. No lady these days want to be the number one, no, every lady wants to be the only one; they want to be the one you can’t do without, the one that you would always want to be with. Make her feel this way by pampering her.
So in last would conclude like every woman feels-
I want you to pamper me when i am off, I want you to hug me when i am annoyed and cuddle me when i am low.