I myself have experienced this in my life.We all have some goals and dreams but very few of us make it come true, some of us just loose hope when we are just one step away to the goal just because we get tired of trying many time and faced multiple failures.To achieve your dreams, it really work if you visualize it that you have have achieved it, creating such thought every day while going to sleep or in a day will make it reality.
To achieve any thing in life, first and foremost thing required according to me is self belief and never give up attitude. Sometimes, life offers you situations which not only demands hard work and perseverance but some creative thinking as well to save from the situation.
Some people around you may ask you to be on a safer side always and stop trying and taking risks. However, there is no gain without pain. So we should try hard to achieve success in life despite what life offers you. As even if luck doesn’t favor hardwork will always work .
Why not identify our priorities in life and develop a good strategy to work towards fulfilling it rather than wasting your time and effort on unnecessary aspects of life.
This remind me of One story which we have heard in our childhood, which is on Struggles develop strength. Sharing below-
One day a man was passing by a garden when he saw a butterfly cocoon which was about to get open.
He saw a small opening on it and watched the several hours of struggles the butterfly came through to get the body out of it. After many hours, it seemed that the butterfly stopped trying as there was no progress.
He thought to help the butterfly by cutting the cocoon with a scissor. So the butterfly came out easily but the wings were shriveled and the body was tiny and withered.
Unfortunately, the butterfly was not able to take flight and spend the rest of life crawling with a wounded body.
Moral: This is nature’s way of telling the importance of struggles in life. Sometimes, different kinds of struggles are needed in life to make you stronger in the future. Never feel disappointed in life and stop trying when life offers you struggles but keep on fighting until you see success.
So, i would say that We should all Just shake off our problems and stand on it and step up . Every bad experience is a new learning. So get the positives out of it and work towards your goals with balancing your life priorities and invest time with your family, your loved ones. Because ”yeh zindgie na milegie dubara”and save some time to relax also, which would boost up your productivity.