Happiness is just a state of mind, a choice , a way of living. It is not something to be achieved, it is something to be experienced – Steve Maraboli
Our solution to happiness is STOP DEPENDING ON OTHERS. Keep your chin up and help yourself.
Appreciate yourself – Don’t wait for others to appreciate you. If you know you did something good, treat yourself to a chocolate or any thing of your favorite that you like. Even if somebody says that you have not done it right just ignore without feeling dishearten. For eg . You made sweet and it was supper tasty but when you offer others to eat they eat it and enjoy it but after that they take out fault into it. People are there to only find out mistake and very less will be there who appreciate, so why to wait for others appreciation you know you put your best, appreciate your efforts .
Look at the positive side of every situation– Every thing you are facing today have some goods also try to find them out. Thinking negative in every situation will make the situation worse. Make your habit of seeing positive out of everything every situation and you will see the positive change in your life. Make yourself better than you were in past . Set your goals and keep chasing them with you best efforts without losing hope. The best line “Mann ke hare har hai mann ke jeete jeet” never ever lose hope have faith, your good time is waiting for you. Everybody gets those constant negative voices that tends to pull you back. Make your own voice for positivity so loud that you can’t hear those voices anymore.
Don’t try to change others – Its easier to change yourself than others. The only thing you can do is change the way you think. You have complete control of what you think about the situation, how you feel about it, and what kind of attitude you will take. You cannot change how other people see you, so it is best to focus on how you can change your perception rather than agonizing over other people’s perceptions.
Improve Relationships – Even if someone mocks you, insults you, or teases you, just think, “do as you like,” and let it not bother you. That person may be misusing the freedom given by God, or the person could be actually trying to educate you in a harsh way. Actually, both cases are possible. Some people get upset simply because they do not like you. Others get upset because they are worried about you and want to guide you to a better direction in life. Whatever the case may be, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Change the way you think, how you see others, and how you treat others. The best way to improve relationships is to first make efforts to change yourself.
Always remember you can never make every one happy. So never try to do so, just be selfish and focus on you by being happy, cheering every moments with a joy and sharing, spreading happiness around you.